About me
I am a 19 years old autistic girl. Since I was 16 I was desperate to have a boyfriend because I thought it was going to compensate for my constant feeling of loneliness. I thought having a partner would be the one thing that was going to fulfill my void. Autistic people tend to obsess over things, turning them into their whole world and idealizing them by thinking it is their only source of happiness. During periods when I was more depressed, this need was more present and not reaching this goal was making things worse.
In parallel with this, I also developed an obsession for a baby basically for the same reasons. I thought having a baby would be the cure to all my problems. Despite what I thought, it took me years to realize that my obsession to get a boyfriend wasn't the main problem, but it was just a consequence to the obsession of having a baby. This "baby fever" caused me a lot of mental troubles during all this years. I spoke about it to several therapists but no one was able to help me forget about this issue. This has caused me a lot of suffering and anxiety.
I recently found the solution to this and it was much easier than what I thought: getting a "reborn" baby. This really helped me get rid of this invasive obsession that was preventing me from having a happy life. Now I really feel relieved and it was a game changer for me.
I understand that many people might find completely ridiculous to have a "doll" at 19 but the fact is that it worked and it's all that matters.
This is why I almost immediately decided to turn this into a business which will not only allow me to make some money but also, I hope, will help many girls that are suffering as much as I did because of this. The only model that I am selling on this website is precisely the one I bought for myself. So u can be sure that it works because I tested it myself ;)
Of course I still want a baby but it's not an obsession anymore.
How it works
WAIT DO I NEED TO PRETEND MY BABY IS REAL IN ORDER FOR IT TO WORK?
No, in fact I wouldn't recommend to wake up with alarms to "feed" the baby at night. To make your "therapy baby" reward work for you, associate small nurturing actions with positive outcomes. Every time you engage with the therapy baby, like cuddling or caring for it, reward yourself with a treat or a moment of relaxation. By linking these actions with rewards, you'll likely strengthen your positive, nurturing instincts over time. When you're nurturing or bonding with a reborn baby, your body naturally produces oxytocin. It's powerful, boosting feelings of love and attachment which reduces the need to have a real baby in order to have that. You can dedicate a space in your day for your reborn baby to have more of a scheduled day if you need more structure in your life. You can also take care or only hug the baby if you need it anytime. It's not wrong to spend more or less time with it!
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